Sometimes, even years after they first started dating, a couple still seems to be drawn to and in love with one another. On the other hand, there are moments when it seems more like a pair of individuals who have chosen to live together than a loving partnership. What distinguishes the former from the latter in terms of maintaining the fire?
No love and attraction almost invariably follow when trust and respect are gone. For the sake of the partnership, damaged trust needs to be explored and acknowledged with the help of a professional relationship therapist.
Couples need therapy when one partner fails to instill confidence in the other or the security of the relationship. When one of you seems to shirk responsibility for your actions and shows no desire to bridge the rift that a diminished feeling of respect or trust might cause.
Codependent relationships are not seen in pairs that appear destined for harmony and constant attraction throughout life. They rely on each other for certain requirements, but they also know how to value and enjoy each other’s uniqueness.
Codependents are dependent on their partner in nearly every area of their existence. These couples frequently don’t have hobbies, friends, or separate identities from one another. Couples typically require couples therapy in Hertfordshire when one partner’s feeling of self-worth becomes wholly dependent on the other’s affirmation and acceptance.
Long-term partnerships require you to be self-aware of your particular qualities and contributions. As individuals, you should both be content with who you are and relish the intrinsic value that you provide to the relationship.
You need couples therapy in Hertfordshire if your partner is insecure, constantly compares themselves to others, or lacks confidence in their own identity, and even in your partnership. When these insecurities arise, unjustified trust concerns or unfounded infidelity allegations may surface.
Attraction and affection may both be stifled by stagnation. The spark you once shared might fade fast if you never have fun together or venture outside of the routine. If you seldom have fun or new experiences together, it’s sometimes simple to forget why you were drawn to someone in the first place. Recall that although your relationship was brand-new at first, so were all of your experiences together. To keep your relationship engaging, make an effort to create new experiences together.
I can help you both engage with one another again that is rooted in renewed trust and understanding. Together, we can craft a new mutual vision for your relationship going forwards. I am only one call away! Request a call back by filling out a form on my website.
